The author Lisa Espich says in her note to the reader that her goal was to inspire the reader and show them that recovery is possible. Espich describes her cycle of co-addiction. "I was living a constant cycle of arguing and crying, driving around late at night looking for my husband, buying back our belongings from pawn shops, putting myself in dangerous situations, feeling alone and confused." Any co-dependent who reads these words knows this is a person who truly understands. When Espich berates herself for not leaving and admits she just wasn't ready, the reader knows this book will have tips she or he can really use -- and it does.
Espich found her way using journaling and after each chapter she has tips for journaling. I was struck by her honest relating a very personal dream she had when her husband was at the depths of his addiction, and how she analyzed the dream and received its message. As Espich worked to take control of her life, her husband began to make positive changes as well. They now enjoy a healthy marriage. However, she makes it clear that she will have to continue on her path regardless of whether or not her husband remains clean.
The book echoed a journey I had taken myself, I wish I had read this book earlier in life, but I can testifiy that it will work and it worked the same way for me.
Review by Julia Widdop
Sunday, June 5, 2011
Review of Soaring Above Co-Addiction by Lisa Ann Espich
Wednesday, May 25, 2011
Review of Shaman Healer Heretic by M. Terry Green
Shaman, Healer, Heretic ISBN number 9780983292500 is a fantasy novel about a group of people who have mutated and have psychic powers. The mutants aren’t that welcome to the world, in fact they are locked up if they are detected, but some of them have learned to pass as normal. In this world of the future, if someone begins to shows signs of being psychic early in life they are taken to work centers where their powers are harnessed and used. Most normal people in the future are fearful and avoid shamans, but many hire them to intervene with the spirits in the upper and lower worlds.
The heroine of the book is a techno-shaman. She has special goggles that allow her to journey to other worlds. The story is the classic struggle between good and evil. Someone has opened Pandora’s box letting out evils spirits and our heroine, Olivia, must put them back in the box. It’s also a coming of age novel because Olivia is just discovering all her powers and how to use them.
The story begins with a giant Kachina doll entering Olivia’s apartment to warn her about the evil that has been unleased. I thought the author did a good job of communicating the essence of the future world as well as the upper, middle and lower worlds of the spirits.
The heroine of the book is a techno-shaman. She has special goggles that allow her to journey to other worlds. The story is the classic struggle between good and evil. Someone has opened Pandora’s box letting out evils spirits and our heroine, Olivia, must put them back in the box. It’s also a coming of age novel because Olivia is just discovering all her powers and how to use them.
The story begins with a giant Kachina doll entering Olivia’s apartment to warn her about the evil that has been unleased. I thought the author did a good job of communicating the essence of the future world as well as the upper, middle and lower worlds of the spirits.
Tuesday, May 3, 2011
Inkings: Very Short Stories and Other Babies Born of Ink by Aparna Warrier
Aparna Warrier's first book, Inklings: Very Short Stories and Other Babies Born of Ink, is a short anthology of twelve stories, covering several different topics, such as youth, young love, politics, heartbreak, some of which are humorous. Most are brief glimpses into ordinary situations, fleeting moments that might contain the flicker of a revelation or an emotion. Warrier captures the minute feelings, which are many times lost on us with the possible exception of pain.
There is no common thread between the stories, except for its reoccuring themes. The book is simply a compilation of vignettes. Due to its length, it felt more like a sampling, but is an enjoyable book, nonetheless. Warrier's style is simple, light-hearted in her humor and heartfelt when necessary; however, there is room to grow. I'm curious to see how this anthology is followed up and see what Warrier is capable of.
Inklings is available from Smashwords.com.
There is no common thread between the stories, except for its reoccuring themes. The book is simply a compilation of vignettes. Due to its length, it felt more like a sampling, but is an enjoyable book, nonetheless. Warrier's style is simple, light-hearted in her humor and heartfelt when necessary; however, there is room to grow. I'm curious to see how this anthology is followed up and see what Warrier is capable of.
Inklings is available from Smashwords.com.
Monday, May 2, 2011
Get the Best Medical Care – You Can Navigate the Medical Maze by Donna Maldonado-Schullo
When you are in pain and not feeling well you aren’t being your most resourceful self. Get the Best Medical Care – You Can Navigate the Medical Maze by Donna Maldonado-Schullo is a very good guide which outlines a logical and practical way to approach your health care providers. I highly recommend that a patient keep the book handy so they can remember where to go and what to do.
One of the points made by the author early on in the book was how the American Health Care system seems designed for frustration and expense. Americans are pretty isolated from the rest of the world so they do not realize that there are medical systems that work much better and cost much less. She points out that many European nations have universal health care and their taxes are no higher than ours, in fact the systems work to eliminate many of the costly problems with the American system. That said she goes on to explain how to work our system to your best advantage.
For example the author recommends that sick people have a patient advocate; preferably an adult who is educated, tactful, feisty, and unemployed. It’s hard for a patient to be his or her own advocate because it’s hard to be tactful and feisty when you’re sick. It may also be difficult to spend the time required to educate yourself if you are sick, or have a full-time job. She points out that patient safety is related to how well that advocate understands the health care system and procedures.
The book lists out patient responsibilities and rights and lets you know where to go to find out more, or place complaints. This is the best thing about this book. It is loaded with references, email addresses and names of agencies you might need. The author includes long lists of questions to ask doctors about themselves and about procedures. It would be worth buying this book for the lists of questions.
The book is available on Amazon.com.
One of the points made by the author early on in the book was how the American Health Care system seems designed for frustration and expense. Americans are pretty isolated from the rest of the world so they do not realize that there are medical systems that work much better and cost much less. She points out that many European nations have universal health care and their taxes are no higher than ours, in fact the systems work to eliminate many of the costly problems with the American system. That said she goes on to explain how to work our system to your best advantage.
For example the author recommends that sick people have a patient advocate; preferably an adult who is educated, tactful, feisty, and unemployed. It’s hard for a patient to be his or her own advocate because it’s hard to be tactful and feisty when you’re sick. It may also be difficult to spend the time required to educate yourself if you are sick, or have a full-time job. She points out that patient safety is related to how well that advocate understands the health care system and procedures.
The book lists out patient responsibilities and rights and lets you know where to go to find out more, or place complaints. This is the best thing about this book. It is loaded with references, email addresses and names of agencies you might need. The author includes long lists of questions to ask doctors about themselves and about procedures. It would be worth buying this book for the lists of questions.
The book is available on Amazon.com.
Thursday, April 21, 2011
A View From a Height by J.E. Murphy
A View From a Height by J.E. Murphy is a fantasy novel—the autobiography of Dawn Bang, a second-generation Chinese immigrant to Hawaii. She has left a manuscript behind that is discovered by a man named Tomas. He translates this manuscript into English and is startled and changed by what he reads. In this manuscript, Bang tells the tale of her death and her awakening, and of a love that is selfless, pure, and with the power to redeem and to change history.
Many years after a car accident nearly takes her life—an experience which helps transform her reckless, self-destructive lifestyle to one of selflessness—she begins to have dreams in which she helps the dead cross over. She is one of those called the Dakini, spirits who go to the dead and the dying and assist them in their transition. These efforts help thousands of spirits assimilate to their new existence; however, in one instance, her role is reversed. She helps a dying man live, and so begins the awakening of a bodhisattva, David Chang, and later, the awakening of Captain Thomas John Boorman.
In this book, there is much exposition and discussion of Buddhist truths: the subject of reincarnation and the remembering of past lives, purpose, and knowing one’s true nature and the true nature of the world. The story is primarily a metaphysical one; any action in the story, while an outward appearance of the spiritual, takes a backseat to this. The book entertains while also teaching the open-minded reader; it is thoughtful and thought-provoking, especially for one on their own spiritual journey. Because the novel takes place largely in China and Tibet, there is also much commentary of the political state of these two countries.
This book is for anyone interested in Buddhism or the metaphysical, or simply wants to read a fascinating story. It is a longer book, tipping the scales at over five and fifty hundred pages, but it is worth getting through.
A View From a Height is available from Smashwords.com and Barnes and Noble, and from Amazon in Kindle or print editions.
Review by Diana Reed
Many years after a car accident nearly takes her life—an experience which helps transform her reckless, self-destructive lifestyle to one of selflessness—she begins to have dreams in which she helps the dead cross over. She is one of those called the Dakini, spirits who go to the dead and the dying and assist them in their transition. These efforts help thousands of spirits assimilate to their new existence; however, in one instance, her role is reversed. She helps a dying man live, and so begins the awakening of a bodhisattva, David Chang, and later, the awakening of Captain Thomas John Boorman.
In this book, there is much exposition and discussion of Buddhist truths: the subject of reincarnation and the remembering of past lives, purpose, and knowing one’s true nature and the true nature of the world. The story is primarily a metaphysical one; any action in the story, while an outward appearance of the spiritual, takes a backseat to this. The book entertains while also teaching the open-minded reader; it is thoughtful and thought-provoking, especially for one on their own spiritual journey. Because the novel takes place largely in China and Tibet, there is also much commentary of the political state of these two countries.
This book is for anyone interested in Buddhism or the metaphysical, or simply wants to read a fascinating story. It is a longer book, tipping the scales at over five and fifty hundred pages, but it is worth getting through.
A View From a Height is available from Smashwords.com and Barnes and Noble, and from Amazon in Kindle or print editions.
Review by Diana Reed
Saturday, April 9, 2011
Grieving a Soulmate: The Love Story Behind "Till Death Do Us Part" by Robert Orfali
Robert Orfali tells a heartbreaking story in his book Grieving a Soulmate: The Love Story Behind "Till Death Do Us Part." In this part survival guide/part memoir, Orfali begins by describing when his wife, Jeri, was diagnosed with ovarian cancer in 1999, which marked a turn in their journey, that their time together was coming to an end. He briefly discusses the details of their battle with Jeri's cancer and highlights her strength, courage and her ability to overcome her circumstances, after which he then describes in detail his own battle with the grief he was left when his wife passed.
At one point, Orfali mentions that he wishes he could have read this same book before his wife passed, and so in order to help others, he writes about his experience with grieving the death of his soulmate, Jeri. He writes about how he dealt with his own grief and gives an analytical but heartfelt approach to sorting through the mess death leaves behind—both the emotional aspects and the practical. Through sharing his wife's passing and the grieving that followed, Orfali seeks to provide the reader with the preparation, support, and understanding needed to grieve their lover when death comes. He discusses how to reconstruct one's life, find new meaning as a survivor, and that it is possible to learn to live again and once again be whole.
Orfali's writing style is gentle, but firm, handling the reader with care while guiding them through a difficult topic. There is a section in the book in which he attempts to give a thorough overview of the available "grief theory—" the theories published by psychologists ranging from Sigmund Freud to Elizabeth Kubler-Ross and how this research impacted his grieving process, and also acknowledges the various self-help books available and what they did for him.
Because death is inevitable and is always waiting on the doorstep, this book is for lovers of all ages.
Grieving a Soulmate: The Love Story Behind "Till Death Do Us Part" is available from Amazon.com in both print and Kindle editions, and also from Barnes and Noble, Apple, Books a Million, and other vendors.
Review by Diana Reed
At one point, Orfali mentions that he wishes he could have read this same book before his wife passed, and so in order to help others, he writes about his experience with grieving the death of his soulmate, Jeri. He writes about how he dealt with his own grief and gives an analytical but heartfelt approach to sorting through the mess death leaves behind—both the emotional aspects and the practical. Through sharing his wife's passing and the grieving that followed, Orfali seeks to provide the reader with the preparation, support, and understanding needed to grieve their lover when death comes. He discusses how to reconstruct one's life, find new meaning as a survivor, and that it is possible to learn to live again and once again be whole.
Orfali's writing style is gentle, but firm, handling the reader with care while guiding them through a difficult topic. There is a section in the book in which he attempts to give a thorough overview of the available "grief theory—" the theories published by psychologists ranging from Sigmund Freud to Elizabeth Kubler-Ross and how this research impacted his grieving process, and also acknowledges the various self-help books available and what they did for him.
Because death is inevitable and is always waiting on the doorstep, this book is for lovers of all ages.
Grieving a Soulmate: The Love Story Behind "Till Death Do Us Part" is available from Amazon.com in both print and Kindle editions, and also from Barnes and Noble, Apple, Books a Million, and other vendors.
Review by Diana Reed
Sunday, April 3, 2011
Review of Recessions End by Michael Everett
Recessions End: Stimulus for the Rest of Us. ISBN 9781453750919 At first I didn’t really want to read a book about the recession and how it has supposedly ended, but gradually as I read Michael Everett’s new book I realized that it was much more than a book about the economics of the recession. It’s really a book about hope and positive thinking and taking action. Everett points out that there has been a recession predictably every 12 years and every time we act like it’s the first time. I thought about it an realized he’s right. This isn’t the first time the economy has crashed. He points out that it’s really a cycle and as soon as you realize that you can begin planning on how to bounce back faster and how to avoid crashing with it next time. The cycle is caused, according to Everett, when the economy heats up above what can be sustained, then the market has to correct. The bubble has to burst. The economy crashes for awhile then it starts back up. The people who are expecting it can avoid going down with it and can ride the wave back up as it goes up.
Everett outlines some of the most positive ways you can take care of yourself to avoid depression and maintain a positive and healthy outlook on life. His suggestions are very practical and down to earth. Stuff like breath, drink water, exercise, protect your mind from negativity and keep on the sunny side of life. Stuff we all know, but we have to hear in a little different way from time to time. For anyone who is depressed at the state of the economy, I think this book is just the subscription you need to pick you up and set your feet back on the road to health and prosperity.
Review by Julia Widdop
Everett outlines some of the most positive ways you can take care of yourself to avoid depression and maintain a positive and healthy outlook on life. His suggestions are very practical and down to earth. Stuff like breath, drink water, exercise, protect your mind from negativity and keep on the sunny side of life. Stuff we all know, but we have to hear in a little different way from time to time. For anyone who is depressed at the state of the economy, I think this book is just the subscription you need to pick you up and set your feet back on the road to health and prosperity.
Review by Julia Widdop
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